Unqualified parents often have these two characteristics! Parents self-test!
Unqualified parents often have these two characteristics! Parents self-test!
Home is the place where a child's dream begins. Don't break his dream because of a word.


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A 13-year-old girl Xiaoyi left such a question in Qzone.


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but sadly, Xiaoyi went to another world before waiting for the answer to the question-two days after Xiaoyi posted this sentence, Xiaoyi drowned in a pond near her home.


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Grandma and Grandpa told the teacher that they didn't buy the test paper, the teacher still didn't believe it.

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teacher asks the teacherLi Yi and her twin sister retook the exam with a make-up score of 98 points.


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according to Red Star News, when a reporter asked Xiaoyi about her death, Xiaoyi's aunt said it was probably related to the teacher's suspicion of her cheating.


after the event, the school responded that the parents were "not yet consistent", and we could not be 100% sure that the girl's death was related to the teacher's suspicion of cheating, let alone whether it was a suicide, slip or criminal case.


but there is no doubt that , like this teacher in the news, hurts the child's self-esteem and is not worth advocating.



the child is young, but also has self-esteem.


their self-esteem is often more fragile than adults, and a seemingly inadvertent sentence from people around them may have adverse effects on physical and mental development.


Chenmum would like to take advantage of this article to talk to parents about what their parents' actions will hurt their children's self-esteem.


if there is something, it will be changed; otherwise, it will be encouraged.


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A 13-year-old girl Xiaoyi left such a question in Qzone.



but sadly, Xiaoyi went to another world before waiting for the answer to the question-two days after Xiaoyi posted this sentence, Xiaoyi drowned in a pond near her home.


trong>


pan>


Grandma and Grandpa told the teacher that they didn't buy the test paper, the teacher still didn't believe it.

>

teacher asks the teacherLi Yi and her twin sister retook the exam with a make-up score of 98 points.


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according to Red Star News, when a reporter asked Xiaoyi about her death, Xiaoyi's aunt said it was probably related to the teacher's suspicion of her cheating.


after the event, the school responded that the parents were "not yet consistent", and we could not be 100% sure that the girl's death was related to the teacher's suspicion of cheating, let alone whether it was a suicide, slip or criminal case.


but there is no doubt that , like this teacher in the news, hurts the child's self-esteem and is not worth advocating.



the child is young, but also has self-esteem.


their self-esteem is often more fragile than adults, and a seemingly inadvertent sentence from people around them may have adverse effects on physical and mental development.


Chenmum would like to take advantage of this article to talk to parents about what their parents' actions will hurt their children's self-esteem.


if there is something, it will be changed; otherwise, it will be encouraged.


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but sadly, Xiaoyi went to another world before waiting for the answer to the question-two days after Xiaoyi posted this sentence, Xiaoyi drowned in a pond near her home.


trong>


pan>


Grandma and Grandpa told the teacher that they didn't buy the test paper, the teacher still didn't believe it.

>

but sadly, Xiaoyi went to another world before waiting for the answer to the question-two days after Xiaoyi posted this sentence, Xiaoyi drowned in a pond near her home.


trong>


pan>


Grandma and Grandpa told the teacher that they didn't buy the test paper, the teacher still didn't believe it.

teacher asks the teacherLi Yi and her twin sister retook the exam with a make-up score of 98 points.



according to Red Star News, when a reporter asked Xiaoyi about her death, Xiaoyi's aunt said it was probably related to the teacher's suspicion of her cheating.


after the event, the school responded that the parents were "not yet consistent", and we could not be 100% sure that the girl's death was related to the teacher's suspicion of cheating, let alone whether it was a suicide, slip or criminal case.


but there is no doubt that , like this teacher in the news, hurts the child's self-esteem and is not worth advocating.



the child is young, but also has self-esteem.


their self-esteem is often more fragile than adults, and a seemingly inadvertent sentence from people around them may have adverse effects on physical and mental development.


Chenmum would like to take advantage of this article to talk to parents about what their parents' actions will hurt their children's self-esteem.


if there is something, it will be changed; otherwise, it will be encouraged.


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according to Red Star News, when a reporter asked Xiaoyi about her death, Xiaoyi's aunt said it was probably related to the teacher's suspicion of her cheating.


after the event, the school responded that the parents were "not yet consistent", and we could not be 100% sure that the girl's death was related to the teacher's suspicion of cheating, let alone whether it was a suicide, slip or criminal case.


but there is no doubt that , like this teacher in the news, hurts the child's self-esteem and is not worth advocating.



the child is young, but also has self-esteem.


their self-esteem is often more fragile than adults, and a seemingly inadvertent sentence from people around them may have adverse effects on physical and mental development.


Chenmum would like to take advantage of this article to talk to parents about what their parents' actions will hurt their children's self-esteem.


if there is something, it will be changed; otherwise, it will be encouraged.


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pan>

according to Red Star News, when a reporter asked Xiaoyi about her death, Xiaoyi's aunt said it was probably related to the teacher's suspicion of her cheating.


after the event, the school responded that the parents were "not yet consistent", and we could not be 100% sure that the girl's death was related to the teacher's suspicion of cheating, let alone whether it was a suicide, slip or criminal case.


but there is no doubt that , like this teacher in the news, hurts the child's self-esteem and is not worth advocating.



the child is young, but also has self-esteem.


their self-esteem is often more fragile than adults, and a seemingly inadvertent sentence from people around them may have adverse effects on physical and mental development.


Chenmum would like to take advantage of this article to talk to parents about what their parents' actions will hurt their children's self-esteem.


if there is something, it will be changed; otherwise, it will be encouraged.


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after the event, the school responded that the parents were "not yet consistent", and we could not be 100% sure that the girl's death was related to the teacher's suspicion of cheating, let alone whether it was a suicide, slip or criminal case.


but there is no doubt that , like this teacher in the news, hurts the child's self-esteem and is not worth advocating.



the child is young, but also has self-esteem.


their self-esteem is often more fragile than adults, and a seemingly inadvertent sentence from people around them may have adverse effects on physical and mental development.


Chenmum would like to take advantage of this article to talk to parents about what their parents' actions will hurt their children's self-esteem.


if there is something, it will be changed; otherwise, it will be encouraged.


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I remember watching a piece of news some time ago:


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14-year-old child, sensitive and vulnerable, after being taught such a lesson by his mother in public, he probably felt that he had lost all his dignity and face, so he chose to jump off the building.


the mother must have regretted it afterwards.


if you control your temper, if you don't slap your child in public, if you are willing to talk to your child. Is it possible that none of this will happen?


pan>


the wish of a senior high school girl is actually very simple, that is, her mother can educate herself behind closed doors and not lose her temper in front of outsiders.


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We are not allowed to criticize our children, but never criticize them in public.


so the next time a child makes a mistake, we must think about it:


do you pay attention to the occasion when criticizing children?

do you consider your child's feelings when talking to your child?

can we be more patient with our children?


pan>


parents who know how to maintain this dignity are parents with great wisdom.


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compare your child with others


every New year, when relatives and friends gather together, they like to talk about their own children.


but one of the most common mistakes many parents make is by comparing their children with others.


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No, no, no! It's not like his sharp-billed monkey gills! "

.


when pushing their children behind closed doors, parents will also compare the strengths of other children with their own children's weaknesses:

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"are you a pig brain? Are you the only one in the class to make the mistake? "

.


there are many examples like this. I understand that many parents are modest and don't want their children to be too complacent.


but as psychologist Dr. Susan Foward said:


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if children are always compared with others, they naturally feel inferior to others everywhere.


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Hemingway once said: "the true nobility should be better than who you used to be", and the right thing to do is to compare children with themselves.


when the child goes backwards, say to him, "you can do better, that's the way it used to be!" When the child is making progress, tell the child, "your grades are much better than last time. Keep going!" .


only in this way can the child continue to grow up.



at the end of the article, Chen Ma would like to share with you a sentence she recently read:


"Children are more face-saving than adults, because the world is small, so all the little things are not small."


pan>


as parents, we should grasp the discretion of educating our children and use our wisdom to protect their little self-esteem.


Home is where a child's dreams begin. Don't break his dreams with one sentence!


if you think this article is enlightening to you, order "watching" and "like" Let


learn practical parenting information from the morning mother and become a wiser parent!



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* this article is the official account of mother and baby, which is originally created by ID:jqfans and followed by Bao Ma in 6 million. Author: Chen Ma, a baby mother with rich parenting experience, shares parenting knowledge, parenting education experience, marriage and family feelings, and grows up with thousands of parents.


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14-year-old child, sensitive and vulnerable, after being taught such a lesson by his mother in public, he probably felt that he had lost all his dignity and face, so he chose to jump off the building.


the mother must have regretted it afterwards.


if you control your temper, if you don't slap your child in public, if you are willing to talk to your child. Is it possible that none of this will happen?


pan>


the wish of a senior high school girl is actually very simple, that is, her mother can educate herself behind closed doors and not lose her temper in front of outsiders.


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We are not allowed to criticize our children, but never criticize them in public.


so the next time a child makes a mistake, we must think about it:


do you pay attention to the occasion when criticizing children?

do you consider your child's feelings when talking to your child?

can we be more patient with our children?


pan>


parents who know how to maintain this dignity are parents with great wisdom.


mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/VF6kXIiaYIllb2AzmCzcrvw72w41QTYuSF4a4pffTgn2hib9YeZFiaenIEMs8wDMsDt9Jd9EPPFTa35B69A16jeog/640?wx_fmt=jpeg\" data-type=\" jpeg\ "data-w=\" 1080\ "style=\ 'box-sizing:border-box;width:\" auto\ ";\'>

compare your child with others


every New year, when relatives and friends gather together, they like to talk about their own children.


but one of the most common mistakes many parents make is by comparing their children with others.


pan>

No, no, no! It's not like his sharp-billed monkey gills! "

.


when pushing their children behind closed doors, parents will also compare the strengths of other children with their own children's weaknesses:

pan>

"are you a pig brain? Are you the only one in the class to make the mistake? "

.


there are many examples like this. I understand that many parents are modest and don't want their children to be too complacent.


but as psychologist Dr. Susan Foward said:


pan>


if children are always compared with others, they naturally feel inferior to others everywhere.


pan>


Hemingway once said: "the true nobility should be better than who you used to be", and the right thing to do is to compare children with themselves.


when the child goes backwards, say to him, "you can do better, that's the way it used to be!" When the child is making progress, tell the child, "your grades are much better than last time. Keep going!" .


only in this way can the child continue to grow up.



at the end of the article, Chen Ma would like to share with you a sentence she recently read:


"Children are more face-saving than adults, because the world is small, so all the little things are not small."


pan>


as parents, we should grasp the discretion of educating our children and use our wisdom to protect their little self-esteem.


Home is where a child's dreams begin. Don't break his dreams with one sentence!


if you think this article is enlightening to you, order "watching" and "like" Let


learn practical parenting information from the morning mother and become a wiser parent!



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* this article is the official account of mother and baby, which is originally created by ID:jqfans and followed by Bao Ma in 6 million. Author: Chen Ma, a baby mother with rich parenting experience, shares parenting knowledge, parenting education experience, marriage and family feelings, and grows up with thousands of parents.


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14-year-old child, sensitive and vulnerable, after being taught such a lesson by his mother in public, he probably felt that he had lost all his dignity and face, so he chose to jump off the building.


the mother must have regretted it afterwards.


if you control your temper, if you don't slap your child in public, if you are willing to talk to your child. Is it possible that none of this will happen?


pan>


the wish of a senior high school girl is actually very simple, that is, her mother can educate herself behind closed doors and not lose her temper in front of outsiders.


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We are not allowed to criticize our children, but never criticize them in public.


so the next time a child makes a mistake, we must think about it:


do you pay attention to the occasion when criticizing children?

do you consider your child's feelings when talking to your child?

can we be more patient with our children?


pan>


parents who know how to maintain this dignity are parents with great wisdom.


mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/VF6kXIiaYIllb2AzmCzcrvw72w41QTYuSF4a4pffTgn2hib9YeZFiaenIEMs8wDMsDt9Jd9EPPFTa35B69A16jeog/640?wx_fmt=jpeg\" data-type=\" jpeg\ "data-w=\" 1080\ "style=\ 'box-sizing:border-box;width:\" auto\ ";\'>

compare your child with others


every New year, when relatives and friends gather together, they like to talk about their own children.


but one of the most common mistakes many parents make is by comparing their children with others.


pan>

No, no, no! It's not like his sharp-billed monkey gills! "

.


when pushing their children behind closed doors, parents will also compare the strengths of other children with their own children's weaknesses:

pan>

"are you a pig brain? Are you the only one in the class to make the mistake? "

.


there are many examples like this. I understand that many parents are modest and don't want their children to be too complacent.


but as psychologist Dr. Susan Foward said:


pan>


if children are always compared with others, they naturally feel inferior to others everywhere.


pan>


Hemingway once said: "the true nobility should be better than who you used to be", and the right thing to do is to compare children with themselves.


when the child goes backwards, say to him, "you can do better, that's the way it used to be!" When the child is making progress, tell the child, "your grades are much better than last time. Keep going!" .


only in this way can the child continue to grow up.



at the end of the article, Chen Ma would like to share with you a sentence she recently read:


"Children are more face-saving than adults, because the world is small, so all the little things are not small."


pan>


as parents, we should grasp the discretion of educating our children and use our wisdom to protect their little self-esteem.


Home is where a child's dreams begin. Don't break his dreams with one sentence!


if you think this article is enlightening to you, order "watching" and "like" Let


learn practical parenting information from the morning mother and become a wiser parent!



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* this article is the official account of mother and baby, which is originally created by ID:jqfans and followed by Bao Ma in 6 million. Author: Chen Ma, a baby mother with rich parenting experience, shares parenting knowledge, parenting education experience, marriage and family feelings, and grows up with thousands of parents.


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14-year-old child, sensitive and vulnerable, after being taught such a lesson by his mother in public, he probably felt that he had lost all his dignity and face, so he chose to jump off the building.


the mother must have regretted it afterwards.


if you control your temper, if you don't slap your child in public, if you are willing to talk to your child. Is it possible that none of this will happen?


pan>


the wish of a senior high school girl is actually very simple, that is, her mother can educate herself behind closed doors and not lose her temper in front of outsiders.


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We are not allowed to criticize our children, but never criticize them in public.


so the next time a child makes a mistake, we must think about it:


do you pay attention to the occasion when criticizing children?

do you consider your child's feelings when talking to your child?

can we be more patient with our children?


pan>


parents who know how to maintain this dignity are parents with great wisdom.


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compare your child with others


every New year, when relatives and friends gather together, they like to talk about their own children.


but one of the most common mistakes many parents make is by comparing their children with others.


pan>

No, no, no! It's not like his sharp-billed monkey gills! "

.


when pushing their children behind closed doors, parents will also compare the strengths of other children with their own children's weaknesses:

pan>

"are you a pig brain? Are you the only one in the class to make the mistake? "

.


there are many examples like this. I understand that many parents are modest and don't want their children to be too complacent.


but as psychologist Dr. Susan Foward said:


pan>


if children are always compared with others, they naturally feel inferior to others everywhere.


pan>


Hemingway once said: "the true nobility should be better than who you used to be", and the right thing to do is to compare children with themselves.


when the child goes backwards, say to him, "you can do better, that's the way it used to be!" When the child is making progress, tell the child, "your grades are much better than last time. Keep going!" .


only in this way can the child continue to grow up.



at the end of the article, Chen Ma would like to share with you a sentence she recently read:


"Children are more face-saving than adults, because the world is small, so all the little things are not small."


pan>


as parents, we should grasp the discretion of educating our children and use our wisdom to protect their little self-esteem.


Home is where a child's dreams begin. Don't break his dreams with one sentence!


if you think this article is enlightening to you, order "watching" and "like" Let


learn practical parenting information from the morning mother and become a wiser parent!



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* this article is the official account of mother and baby, which is originally created by ID:jqfans and followed by Bao Ma in 6 million. Author: Chen Ma, a baby mother with rich parenting experience, shares parenting knowledge, parenting education experience, marriage and family feelings, and grows up with thousands of parents.


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if you control your temper, if you don't slap your child in public, if you are willing to talk to your child. Is it possible that none of this will happen?


pan>


the wish of a senior high school girl is actually very simple, that is, her mother can educate herself behind closed doors and not lose her temper in front of outsiders.


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We are not allowed to criticize our children, but never criticize them in public.


so the next time a child makes a mistake, we must think about it:


do you pay attention to the occasion when criticizing children?

do you consider your child's feelings when talking to your child?

can we be more patient with our children?


pan>


parents who know how to maintain this dignity are parents with great wisdom.


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every New year, when relatives and friends gather together, they like to talk about their own children.


but one of the most common mistakes many parents make is by comparing their children with others.


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No, no, no! It's not like his sharp-billed monkey gills! "

.


when pushing their children behind closed doors, parents will also compare the strengths of other children with their own children's weaknesses:

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"are you a pig brain? Are you the only one in the class to make the mistake? "

.


there are many examples like this. I understand that many parents are modest and don't want their children to be too complacent.


but as psychologist Dr. Susan Foward said:


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if children are always compared with others, they naturally feel inferior to others everywhere.


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Hemingway once said: "the true nobility should be better than who you used to be", and the right thing to do is to compare children with themselves.


when the child goes backwards, say to him, "you can do better, that's the way it used to be!" When the child is making progress, tell the child, "your grades are much better than last time. Keep going!" .


only in this way can the child continue to grow up.



at the end of the article, Chen Ma would like to share with you a sentence she recently read:


"Children are more face-saving than adults, because the world is small, so all the little things are not small."


pan>


as parents, we should grasp the discretion of educating our children and use our wisdom to protect their little self-esteem.


Home is where a child's dreams begin. Don't break his dreams with one sentence!


if you think this article is enlightening to you, order "watching" and "like" Let


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if you control your temper, if you don't slap your child in public, if you are willing to talk to your child. Is it possible that none of this will happen?


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the wish of a senior high school girl is actually very simple, that is, her mother can educate herself behind closed doors and not lose her temper in front of outsiders.


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We are not allowed to criticize our children, but never criticize them in public.


so the next time a child makes a mistake, we must think about it:


do you pay attention to the occasion when criticizing children?

do you consider your child's feelings when talking to your child?

can we be more patient with our children?


pan>


parents who know how to maintain this dignity are parents with great wisdom.


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compare your child with others


every New year, when relatives and friends gather together, they like to talk about their own children.


but one of the most common mistakes many parents make is by comparing their children with others.


pan>

No, no, no! It's not like his sharp-billed monkey gills! "

.


when pushing their children behind closed doors, parents will also compare the strengths of other children with their own children's weaknesses:

pan>

"are you a pig brain? Are you the only one in the class to make the mistake? "

.


there are many examples like this. I understand that many parents are modest and don't want their children to be too complacent.


but as psychologist Dr. Susan Foward said:


pan>


if children are always compared with others, they naturally feel inferior to others everywhere.


pan>


Hemingway once said: "the true nobility should be better than who you used to be", and the right thing to do is to compare children with themselves.


when the child goes backwards, say to him, "you can do better, that's the way it used to be!" When the child is making progress, tell the child, "your grades are much better than last time. Keep going!" .


only in this way can the child continue to grow up.



at the end of the article, Chen Ma would like to share with you a sentence she recently read:


"Children are more face-saving than adults, because the world is small, so all the little things are not small."


pan>


as parents, we should grasp the discretion of educating our children and use our wisdom to protect their little self-esteem.


Home is where a child's dreams begin. Don't break his dreams with one sentence!


if you think this article is enlightening to you, order "watching" and "like" Let


learn practical parenting information from the morning mother and become a wiser parent!



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the wish of a senior high school girl is actually very simple, that is, her mother can educate herself behind closed doors and not lose her temper in front of outsiders.


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We are not allowed to criticize our children, but never criticize them in public.


so the next time a child makes a mistake, we must think about it:


do you pay attention to the occasion when criticizing children?

do you consider your child's feelings when talking to your child?

can we be more patient with our children?


pan>


parents who know how to maintain this dignity are parents with great wisdom.


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compare your child with others


every New year, when relatives and friends gather together, they like to talk about their own children.


but one of the most common mistakes many parents make is by comparing their children with others.


pan>

No, no, no! It's not like his sharp-billed monkey gills! "

.


when pushing their children behind closed doors, parents will also compare the strengths of other children with their own children's weaknesses:

pan>

"are you a pig brain? Are you the only one in the class to make the mistake? "

.


there are many examples like this. I understand that many parents are modest and don't want their children to be too complacent.


but as psychologist Dr. Susan Foward said:


pan>


if children are always compared with others, they naturally feel inferior to others everywhere.


pan>


Hemingway once said: "the true nobility should be better than who you used to be", and the right thing to do is to compare children with themselves.


when the child goes backwards, say to him, "you can do better, that's the way it used to be!" When the child is making progress, tell the child, "your grades are much better than last time. Keep going!" .


only in this way can the child continue to grow up.



at the end of the article, Chen Ma would like to share with you a sentence she recently read:


"Children are more face-saving than adults, because the world is small, so all the little things are not small."


pan>


as parents, we should grasp the discretion of educating our children and use our wisdom to protect their little self-esteem.


Home is where a child's dreams begin. Don't break his dreams with one sentence!


if you think this article is enlightening to you, order "watching" and "like" Let


learn practical parenting information from the morning mother and become a wiser parent!



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the wish of a senior high school girl is actually very simple, that is, her mother can educate herself behind closed doors and not lose her temper in front of outsiders.


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We are not allowed to criticize our children, but never criticize them in public.


so the next time a child makes a mistake, we must think about it:


do you pay attention to the occasion when criticizing children?

do you consider your child's feelings when talking to your child?

can we be more patient with our children?


pan>


parents who know how to maintain this dignity are parents with great wisdom.


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compare your child with others


the wish of a senior high school girl is actually very simple, that is, her mother can educate herself behind closed doors and not lose her temper in front of outsiders.



We are not allowed to criticize our children, but never criticize them in public.


so the next time a child makes a mistake, we must think about it:


do you pay attention to the occasion when criticizing children?

do you consider your child's feelings when talking to your child?

can we be more patient with our children?


pan>


parents who know how to maintain this dignity are parents with great wisdom.


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do you pay attention to the occasion when criticizing children?

do you consider your child's feelings when talking to your child?

can we be more patient with our children?


pan>


parents who know how to maintain this dignity are parents with great wisdom.


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compare your child with others

every New year, when relatives and friends gather together, they like to talk about their own children.


but one of the most common mistakes many parents make is by comparing their children with others.


pan>

No, no, no! It's not like his sharp-billed monkey gills! "

.


when pushing their children behind closed doors, parents will also compare the strengths of other children with their own children's weaknesses:

pan>

but one of the most common mistakes many parents make is by comparing their children with others.


pan>

No, no, no! It's not like his sharp-billed monkey gills! "

.


when pushing their children behind closed doors, parents will also compare the strengths of other children with their own children's weaknesses:

"are you a pig brain? Are you the only one in the class to make the mistake? "

.


there are many examples like this. I understand that many parents are modest and don't want their children to be too complacent.


but as psychologist Dr. Susan Foward said:


pan>


if children are always compared with others, they naturally feel inferior to others everywhere.


pan>


Hemingway once said: "the true nobility should be better than who you used to be", and the right thing to do is to compare children with themselves.


when the child goes backwards, say to him, "you can do better, that's the way it used to be!" When the child is making progress, tell the child, "your grades are much better than last time. Keep going!" .


only in this way can the child continue to grow up.



at the end of the article, Chen Ma would like to share with you a sentence she recently read:


"Children are more face-saving than adults, because the world is small, so all the little things are not small."


pan>


as parents, we should grasp the discretion of educating our children and use our wisdom to protect their little self-esteem.


Home is where a child's dreams begin. Don't break his dreams with one sentence!


if you think this article is enlightening to you, order "watching" and "like" Let


learn practical parenting information from the morning mother and become a wiser parent!



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if children are always compared with others, they naturally feel inferior to others everywhere.


pan>


Hemingway once said: "the true nobility should be better than who you used to be", and the right thing to do is to compare children with themselves.


when the child goes backwards, say to him, "you can do better, that's the way it used to be!" When the child is making progress, tell the child, "your grades are much better than last time. Keep going!" .


only in this way can the child continue to grow up.



at the end of the article, Chen Ma would like to share with you a sentence she recently read:


"Children are more face-saving than adults, because the world is small, so all the little things are not small."


pan>


as parents, we should grasp the discretion of educating our children and use our wisdom to protect their little self-esteem.


Home is where a child's dreams begin. Don't break his dreams with one sentence!


if you think this article is enlightening to you, order "watching" and "like" Let


learn practical parenting information from the morning mother and become a wiser parent!



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if children are always compared with others, they naturally feel inferior to others everywhere.


pan>


Hemingway once said: "the true nobility should be better than who you used to be", and the right thing to do is to compare children with themselves.


when the child goes backwards, say to him, "you can do better, that's the way it used to be!" When the child is making progress, tell the child, "your grades are much better than last time. Keep going!" .


only in this way can the child continue to grow up.



at the end of the article, Chen Ma would like to share with you a sentence she recently read:


"Children are more face-saving than adults, because the world is small, so all the little things are not small."


pan>


as parents, we should grasp the discretion of educating our children and use our wisdom to protect their little self-esteem.


Home is where a child's dreams begin. Don't break his dreams with one sentence!


if you think this article is enlightening to you, order "watching" and "like" Let


learn practical parenting information from the morning mother and become a wiser parent!



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if children are always compared with others, they naturally feel inferior to others everywhere.


pan>


Hemingway once said: "the true nobility should be better than who you used to be", and the right thing to do is to compare children with themselves.


when the child goes backwards, say to him, "you can do better, that's the way it used to be!" When the child is making progress, tell the child, "your grades are much better than last time. Keep going!" .


only in this way can the child continue to grow up.



at the end of the article, Chen Ma would like to share with you a sentence she recently read:


"Children are more face-saving than adults, because the world is small, so all the little things are not small."


pan>


as parents, we should grasp the discretion of educating our children and use our wisdom to protect their little self-esteem.


Home is where a child's dreams begin. Don't break his dreams with one sentence!


if you think this article is enlightening to you, order "watching" and "like" Let


learn practical parenting information from the morning mother and become a wiser parent!



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if children are always compared with others, they naturally feel inferior to others everywhere.


pan>


Hemingway once said: "the true nobility should be better than who you used to be", and the right thing to do is to compare children with themselves.


when the child goes backwards, say to him, "you can do better, that's the way it used to be!" When the child is making progress, tell the child, "your grades are much better than last time. Keep going!" .


only in this way can the child continue to grow up.



at the end of the article, Chen Ma would like to share with you a sentence she recently read:


"Children are more face-saving than adults, because the world is small, so all the little things are not small."


pan>


as parents, we should grasp the discretion of educating our children and use our wisdom to protect their little self-esteem.


Home is where a child's dreams begin. Don't break his dreams with one sentence!


if you think this article is enlightening to you, order "watching" and "like" Let


learn practical parenting information from the morning mother and become a wiser parent!

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as parents, we should grasp the discretion of educating our children and use our wisdom to protect their little self-esteem.


Home is where a child's dreams begin. Don't break his dreams with one sentence!


if you think this article is enlightening to you, order "watching" and "like" Let



* this article is the official account of mother and baby, which is originally created by ID:jqfans and followed by Bao Ma in 6 million. Author: Chen Ma, a baby mother with rich parenting experience, shares parenting knowledge, parenting education experience, marriage and family feelings, and grows up with thousands of parents.