Three bad habits of failed parents, one of which is a good parent!
Three bad habits of failed parents, one of which is a good parent!
Educating children requires not only attentiveness, but also correct practices and habits.

when it comes to what the happiest thing is, Chenma thinks it's the joy of parenthood.


what's the hardest thing to say? Chenma still thinks it's parenthood.


parents' words and deeds are setting an example for their children, and inadvertently small details will become a major part of the child's growth process.

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therefore, in the process of educating children, it is necessary to regulate their own behavior and not let some bad habits affect the child.


Chenmum finds that many failed parents have the following habits--


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Mom said impatiently," what you drink, you know how to eat and drink every day, can't you apply these thoughts to your study! "


the boy who was already happy became a tearful boy.


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the famous educator Hormlinski once said, "when affecting the inner world of students, we should not hurt their self-esteem, the most sensitive corner of their hearts."
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self-esteem is something for everyone, regardless of age, and children are no exception.


criticizing children in public is an act that hurts their self-esteem.


We criticize children to correct their mistakes, not to embarrass them.


isn't it better to correct their mistakes in a kind manner?


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there are many parents who like to say these words:


"our family is poor and can't afford this, so don't think about it!"
"you ate half a day's salary with this fried chicken, don't eat it again!"
" people bought * * because they are rich, so our family can't compete! "
.


these are common words for parents to" cry for poverty "in front of their children, in order to make their children spend less money and develop the habit of frugality.


so is this really the case?


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I feel very sad when there are several answers.


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Child psychologists believe that parents crying about poverty will not make their children better, nor will it be more conducive to their growth.

so what does a child who doesn't cry about poverty look like? one of the episodes of Cherry Meatballs that Mama wants to watch with her balls.


one of the most impressive details is that "when the whole family eats hot pot together, they cook pork and beef together because Japanese beef is too expensive."


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this kind of family education,Xiao Wan Zi is confident and cheerful, not self-abased, even when he gets along with his well-off classmates.


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parents' long-term crying about poverty may make their children frugal, but it can also give them a sense of" lack ".


this sense of scarcity will accompany them throughout their lives, making them inferiority and vulnerability.


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Children are young and lack the ability to distinguish right from wrong, so many parents are used to controlling everything about them in order to avoid their children making mistakes.


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for the sake of her child's" health ", she does not allow her child to eat fried food and forces her child to take her own medicine every day.Meal;
in order not to distract her child, she does not allow her child to speak at the planetarium where she is interested.
she urges her over and over again in order not to delay her study.

finally the child not only wants to escape from her, but also suffers from depression.

think about whether we have ever said something that restricts children's behavior:
" that will get your clothes dirty, don't touch it! "
"you don't look like this at all, it's not right!"
....

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clothes are washed clean when they are dirty, and the painting is not like another style. Protecting children is not about controlling everything.


as long as the child does not involve the bottom line of life and safety boundaries, you can let the child try and explore.

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Lenin's wife Kropskaya said:

"Family education for parents, the first is self-education."

parents are the child's first teacher and the child's mirror. Parents' words and deeds affect their children.


educating children requires not only attentiveness, but also correct practices and habits.


the three habits mentioned above by Mama Chenma. I hope you will encourage parents to change if they have something else. \ "> span>


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* this article is an original mother's manual (ID:jqfans) and a mother and baby official account followed by 6 million Bao Ma. Author: Chen Ma, a baby mother with rich parenting experience, shares parenting knowledge, parenting education experience, marriage and family feelings, and grows up with thousands of parents.


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what's the hardest thing to say? Chenma still thinks it's parenthood.


parents' words and deeds are setting an example for their children, and inadvertently small details will become a major part of the child's growth process.

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therefore, in the process of educating children, it is necessary to regulate their own behavior and not let some bad habits affect the child.


Chenmum finds that many failed parents have the following habits--


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Mom said impatiently," what you drink, you know how to eat and drink every day, can't you apply these thoughts to your study! "


the boy who was already happy became a tearful boy.


pan>


the famous educator Hormlinski once said, "when affecting the inner world of students, we should not hurt their self-esteem, the most sensitive corner of their hearts."
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self-esteem is something for everyone, regardless of age, and children are no exception.


criticizing children in public is an act that hurts their self-esteem.


We criticize children to correct their mistakes, not to embarrass them.


isn't it better to correct their mistakes in a kind manner?


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there are many parents who like to say these words:


"our family is poor and can't afford this, so don't think about it!"
"you ate half a day's salary with this fried chicken, don't eat it again!"
" people bought * * because they are rich, so our family can't compete! "
.


these are common words for parents to" cry for poverty "in front of their children, in order to make their children spend less money and develop the habit of frugality.


so is this really the case?


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what's the hardest thing to say? Chenma still thinks it's parenthood.



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Chenmum finds that many failed parents have the following habits--


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Mom said impatiently," what you drink, you know how to eat and drink every day, can't you apply these thoughts to your study! "


the boy who was already happy became a tearful boy.


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Mom said impatiently," what you drink, you know how to eat and drink every day, can't you apply these thoughts to your study! "


the boy who was already happy became a tearful boy.




criticizing children in public is an act that hurts their self-esteem.


We criticize children to correct their mistakes, not to embarrass them.


isn't it better to correct their mistakes in a kind manner?



there are many parents who like to say these words:



these are common words for parents to" cry for poverty "in front of their children, in order to make their children spend less money and develop the habit of frugality.


so is this really the case?



I feel very sad when there are several answers.


Child psychologists believe that parents crying about poverty will not make their children better, nor will it be more conducive to their growth.

so what does a child who doesn't cry about poverty look like? one of the episodes of Cherry Meatballs that Mama wants to watch with her balls.


one of the most impressive details is that "when the whole family eats hot pot together, they cook pork and beef together because Japanese beef is too expensive."


trong>


this kind of family education,Xiao Wan Zi is confident and cheerful, not self-abased, even when he gets along with his well-off classmates.



parents' long-term crying about poverty may make their children frugal, but it can also give them a sense of" lack ".


this sense of scarcity will accompany them throughout their lives, making them inferiority and vulnerability.


pan>



Children are young and lack the ability to distinguish right from wrong, so many parents are used to controlling everything about them in order to avoid their children making mistakes.


pan>


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educating children requires not only attentiveness, but also correct practices and habits.


the three habits mentioned above by Mama Chenma. I hope you will encourage parents to change if they have something else. \ "> span>