The mother's character determines the child's life, if the mother doesn't read it, it will be too late!

The mother's mood is the fengshui of a family, hiding the future of the child.

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many children who are cowardly and lead to all kinds of psychological problems and abnormal behavior usually have a strong mother at home.

Su Mingyu's mother is a typical overly aggressive mother in the hit TV series" everything is fine. "

Su Mingyu lives in a patriarchal family, her mother is domineering and very strong.There is also differential treatment in the education of the three children.

for the sake of her eldest son and second son, Mother Su sold Mingyu's house without the consent of her younger sister Su Mingyu, forcing her to live in only one room with her parents.

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Mother Su's too strong not only makes Su's father weak and incompetent, but also creates three children with different personalities, affecting their psychology and personality development in adulthood.

the eldest son has been known as" high achiever "for a long time and has become so proud that he won't talk about it even if he lost his job.

the second son has become an "extended family" because he has been spoiled and loved and learned to enjoy.

the little girl becomes indifferent and lacks kinship because she is not accompanied by maternal love and fatherly love.

it turns out that being a mother is too strong for her children to have their own opinions, afraid to express their ideas, and become timid and weak.

Robin said: the deeper the previous generation is involved in the next generation, the less likely it is that their children will be happy.

the mother is too strong, it will make the child lack of autonomy and self-discipline, and even may lead to the child's rebellion, which may have an indelible influence on the child's character cultivation.

mothers should learn to calm down and talk with their children, listen to their own ideas, communicate well, and give them enough space to develop freely.

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saw such a story:

A child saw a cup full of water, so he stepped on the bench and reached the cup, but the cup fell to the ground and broke without thinking of slipping.

the mother hurried out and said:

" Oh, what's the matter with you? what are you doing with the cup? I just know how to play, a place full of glass, look at it. "

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when educating children, a mother's impatience will cause her child to be swayed by her mother's emotions and lose the opportunity to express herself , not only is not conducive to the growth and development of children, but also makes the parent-child relationship become estranged.

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Baby, do you want some water? You can call your mother

you are too young to touch these dangerous things. Your mother will be very distressed if you are hurt. Don't take it next time.

then when children make mistakes, they will have the courage to admit their mistakes and listen more patiently to what you say.

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as the saying goes: the mother's mood is the fengshui of a family, hiding the future of the child.

you never know how your impatience and blatant accountability will affect the people around you, especially your children.

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reason tends to make children remember more than impulse, so mothers remember not to be too impatient and children need to be taught slowly.

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the eldest son has been known as" high achiever "for a long time and has become so proud that he won't talk about it even if he lost his job.

the second son has become an "extended family" because he has been spoiled and loved and learned to enjoy.

the little girl becomes indifferent and lacks kinship because she is not accompanied by maternal love and fatherly love.

it turns out that being a mother is too strong for her children to have their own opinions, afraid to express their ideas, and become timid and weak.

Robin said: the deeper the previous generation is involved in the next generation, the less likely it is that their children will be happy.

mothers should learn to calm down and talk with their children, listen to their own ideas, communicate well, and give them enough space to develop freely.

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saw such a story:

A child saw a cup full of water, so he stepped on the bench and reached the cup, but the cup fell to the ground and broke without thinking of slipping.

the mother hurried out and said:

" Oh, what's the matter with you? what are you doing with the cup? I just know how to play, a place full of glass, look at it. "

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irritable

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if parents are emotionally fragile and little things begin to fluctuate and become irritable, what will children become when they grow up?

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ChildIt is common that Jiajia did not like to eat when she was a child, and when Jia Jia did not eat well and was disobedient, her mother would say:

it is said that an action repeated 15 times will become a habit, grandma's way of education imperceptibly influences mothers, and mothers educate their children in the same way.

the child is still young, and the beating and scolding education of mother and grandmother has made a" demonstration "for the child, so that he imitates the same beating and scolding behavior to treat his younger brother.

generally, children raised by such irritable mothers usually have two extremes-one is extremely cowardly, the other is extremely violent. but both have one thing in common, that is, it makes children anxious, self-abased and lack of sense of security.

think back, do you often do things like this in your life:

beat and scold a child when he is angry

is not good at homework, so he tore up the child's exercise book as soon as he got angry.

the child was bullied and beaten at school, and he came back as an educational criticism.

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when a child makes a mistake, please remember to control your emotions first and don't get angry easily.

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the writer once said:

"the so-called father-daughter fight only means that your fate with him is that you are constantly watching his back drifting away in this life."

do not empty their children's minds in the name of love.

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