in life, we often like to approach people with high "emotional value".

people with high emotional value can nourish our emotions and make us feel relaxed and happy;

people with low emotional value will continue to consume our energy, and even make us lose our expectations of life.

only by constantly improving one's emotional value can one make his future path smoother and smoother.

more comfort, less education

people with high emotional value often have a strong ability of empathy.

when they encounter the cries of the people around them, they will not be busy educating each other, but will put themselves in each other's shoes and try their best to comfort each other.

so that each other's emotions can be calmed down as soon as possible.

therefore, people around them are often willing to go to them to resolve their knots.

people with low emotional value are not.

in the face of the cries of the people around them, they do not want to comfort each other in the first place.

but will educate each other, even teach each other a lesson.

in this way, not only will it not improve the mood of the other party, but it will make it worse.

when people are in pain, what they need most is not rational education, but emotional comfort.

it is easier for the other person to accept it only when he or she calms down and discusses with him whether things are right or wrong.

A master always talks about emotions before being reasonable.

therefore, it is often easier for them to achieve their goals.

more tolerant, less demanding

as the old saying goes:

"if a man is not a saint, he is infallible. If you can change what you have done, there is nothing great about it. "

everyone makes mistakes sometimes.

people with high emotional value tend to adopt a gentle attitude in the face of the mistakes of the people around them.

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they remind each other of their mistakes in a kind and euphemistic way.

therefore, the other party is more willing to correct their own mistakes.

people with low emotional value will be furious when they find that the people around them have made a mistake.

they vent their anger by harshly criticizing each other's faults.

in this way, it is easy to cause each other to walk on thin ice in the future.

after a long time, you will feel physically and mentally exhausted and even want to escape.

"there is no gold, no one is perfect", everyone has their own helpless shortcomings.

people with high emotional value can understand each other's difficulties and will not ask them to correct shortcomings that are difficult to correct.

people around them tend to relax when they get along with them.

people with low emotional value always like to embarrass each other.

if they are not used to it, they should force each other to correct it.

this practice of getting ducks on the shelves will only make people more and more disgusted.

when people get along with others, the most important thing is to tolerate and understand each other.

in this way, we will not be tired of getting along with each other for a long time.

change more, complain less

I have heard such a sentence:

"positive people are like the sun, where they shine; negative people are like the moon, but the first 15 is different."

some people always like to complain about setbacks and pain.

as a result, their complaints not only can not put themselves out of their misery, but let themselves sink deeper.

frequent complaints not only make yourself isolated, but also bring a lot of negative energy to the people around you.

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people with high emotional value will not complain frequently, but will show the positive side.

therefore, it is easier for them to get close to and help from the people around them.

Human emotions are contagious.

this positive and optimistic mood will also inspire people around you to attack difficulties.

the sufferings of life do not disappear because of complaints.

people with high emotional value will spend their time complaining on actions and changing the status quo.

therefore, it is easier for them to get rid of the immediate predicament and usher in the dawn of victory.

this indomitable spirit of changing the status quo is also a great spur to others.

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A psychologist once said:

"emotion is the key to courage, perseverance, happiness and success."

A person does not necessarily need money and status if he wants to be liked by others.

at some point, emotional value may be greater than the value of money and status.

I hope you and I can enhance our emotional value, so as to make our life clearer.

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