Only when the heart is as wide as the sea, can there be calm; if the heart is sunny, it can be warm everywhere.
Maslow, a famous psychologist, said:
"attitude changes, attitude changes, habits change;
habits change, personality changes; personality changes, life changes. "
A person's state of mind often determines his words and deeds and his future.
because there is always something inconspicuous, it can quietly dominate everything in the dark.
it can be said that the better a person's state of mind, the happier and smoother life he can have.
learn to relax your mindset and look at gains and losses
in life, no matter how hard you try or how rational you are, there are always impermanence that you can do nothing about and cannot change.
I am afraid that some people will continue to lose sleep because of temporary success or failure, and because of temporary self-esteem, face, vanity, and so on.
then, the more you think about it, the more you can't let it go, and the more you care about it, the more you care about it.
in the end, it doesn't count that you end up depressed, and you may have a serious illness.
the hardest thing for a person to do is to keep a calm state of mind in good times and bad times.
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"everything in this world that penetrates all the walls is deep in our hearts."
A person should have a positive and optimistic attitude, sunshine and warmth in his life, no matter what he experiences or encounters.
some people say:
"mindset is a two-way door across the road of life, and people can turn it aside and enter success;
can also turn it to the other side and fail.
indeed, the better a person's state of mind, the easier it is to create a good state through a good state of mind, and then come up with a good state to create a wonderful life of your own.
famous writer Lin Qingxuan once said:
"there are nine times out of ten unsatisfactory things in life. I often think about one or two, but not eight or nine."
people with a good mindset know how to be contented, how to let go, and what they need and fit.
in life, a good state of mind is paramount. Don't let pain encroach on your body and mind. Change a good state of mind to welcome you for the rest of your life.
things can go smoothly only when things are in a good state of mind.
if there is nothing in mind, the world is wide. In the journey of life, only when one has a good state of mind, can things go well.
Don't worry, don't worry about right and wrong, keep a good mindset, and things will move in the right direction.
Bill Gates said:
"learn to accept the inevitable, learn to deal with problems caused by defects, and don't complain about it."
there are two sides to things, good or bad.
A truly wise person should know how to take any of them into consideration.
then get the philosophy that really belongs to you and suits you.
in fact, whether you encounter a good thing or a bad thing, you should have a good state of mind.
if you have a good mindset, good luck will naturally patronize you.
everyone likes to deal with people who are positive, confident, easygoing, easygoing and sunny.
No one likes people who frown and complain all day long, because human nature always yearns for beauty and happiness.
in fact, the more people you deal with, the more natural opportunities you have.
come up with a good state of mind at this time, and naturally good luck will come slowly.
if you have a good state of mind, your life can go smoothly. Netizens
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"in June 2019, I will have an operation, a craniotomy to clean up the microhemangioma of the brain.
when I was hospitalized and waiting for surgery, I liked to chat with my patients. The faces of the patients were not very good, and their fear was obvious.
they all say that I am not like a sick person who is open-minded from the inside out.
three days after operation, you can walk on the ground, eat and sleep normally.
five months after the operation, I started to do things and continued to do my old job.
register a business license and apply for a trademark nine months after the operation. Slowly, I am really strong.
I am just an ordinary person. I see everyone thinks of each other as ordinary at first, and I can identify whether I can make a deep acquaintance in my relationship.
people live in the world, only in this way, will be better and better.
it's true that only when you have a good mindset can you be really good. "
William Ward said: "the pessimist complains about the wind, the optimist waits for the wind to change, and the realist adjusts the wind."
A good state of mind, everything is good, because the heart can control everything.
the state of mind is not good, life runs into a brick wall everywhere, if the state of mind is good, everything can go well.
"wise people will never sit there and grieve for their loss.
they will be happy to find ways to make up for their wounds. "
only when the heart is as wide as the sea, can there be calm; if the heart is sunny, it can be warm everywhere.
people with a good state of mind can not only bring warmth to others, but also give themselves endless positive energy.
, you will eventually find that the better the mindset in life, the smoother life will be and the sharper life will be.